How to Find Sex Near Me Tonight [9 tips]

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Bars!

When it comes to finding someone who's down to hook up at the drop of a hat, you're likely to find someone at a bar. People go to bars for one of a few reasons: to drink, to socialize, to flirt, or to straight up fuck. Honestly, can you think of the last time you went to a bar with no desire to flirt or fuck? Bars and clubs create the perfect boozy and sexy atmosphere you need to get laid!

So grab your best wingman and go out. Make sure you're feeling sexy and confident (this probably means spending a little more time in front of the mirror and wearing your nicest clothes). Choose a bar or club you feel comfortable in - as that's where you'll feel the most confident - and go forth and flirt your ass off.

Nearify!

Maybe you're tired of going out just to drink, and you need something to do. Perhaps you want to go to an event of sorts instead, which is a great way to meet people!

Check out apps like Nearify, which aggregate information from event hosting sites and show you what there is to do near you on any given night or weekend!

Personally, I love these sites because it helps you find an event you might be interested in and encourages you to say "fuck it" and go to it! There are going to be plenty of people at any given concert or food and beverage event who did the same thing. The odds are that you might very well find other people who've gone alone or have gone out with their designated wingman (or woman) in an effort to socialize, flirt, and fuck.

Single's nights!

What better place to find someone who wants to fuck than a single's night. Single's nights can be a little awkward because people are going to them with the hopes they'll meet someone, fall in love at first sight, or find a one-night-stand. Knowing that you're all single and "forever alone" might be uncomfortable at first, but soon you'll settle into the vibe.

The best part about this is that there's shameless desperation. People go to these events because they're horny and lonely. So take advantage of the mutual horniness and invite someone back to yours! Plus, everyone's single so no boyfriends will appear out of nowhere after you buy a cute girl a drink!

Swinger's groups!

Now, if you're feeling freaky and free, you might want to look into swinging! You've got to love sexual liberation because more and more people - both single and in relationships - are exploring their sexualities in a more public and fluid way. Check out Fetlife for your local swingers groups. There are bound to be plenty of people in a town or city near you who are meeting up for casual sex.

You may not find someone who's down to fuck on their own, but with their partner. So if you've ever fantasized about a three-way (who hasn't!?) now might be the time to volunteer as tribute.

Hook-up apps!

Obviously, if you're looking to get laid tonight, you should try your luck on location-based hookup/dating apps. These are apps like Tinder and Bumble, you probably already have them downloaded on your phone! Hook-up apps are great for finding someone fairly fast; however, it may take some meaningful conversation to get someone to meet up with you asap.

If you're trying to get laid by using dating apps, I strongly recommend that you cast your net very wide. This means putting your location radius as wide as you're willing or capable of traveling for sex and swiping through as many babes as possible. Fire off the first message to these people; you want to get the conversation flowing fast.

Blind dates/setups!

Honestly, your friends may hold the answer to finding your perfect fuck buddy - or a one-night stand. There's never any harm in asking if any of your friends have any other friends or acquaintances that they think you'd hit it off with.

When it comes to getting laid, your friends are easily your biggest cheerleaders apart from your libido. They want you to get laid, and if they have a good friend that is your type, they're going to want them to get laid and get laid with you! So the next time you're planning on going out, ask a few buddies of yours if they have any friends in mind that they could invite out to see if you hit it off with them!

Thirst trapping!

There's nothing like a good ol' thirst trap. If you want some attention turn to social media. Instead of posting about how you really need coffee or some other relatable thing, post a picture of you looking hot af. Think about it: you have followers across all your social media platforms who follow you just to look at your selfies. So give the people what they want!

You'll be surprised at how many people will slide into your DMs with suggestive eggplant and fire emojis after you post a thirst pic on Insta, Twitter, or Snapchat.

Snapchat flirting!

Speaking of Snapchat… this social media app is probably the most inherently flirty. Think about it: more people sext on Snapchat than people actually communicate. Snapchat was probably created with sexting in mind, so why not get your flirt on. Send out a mass Snapchat - just make sure you don't accidentally create a group - of people who might be thirsting after you.

This mass Snapchat should be flirty and slightly suggestive (please no dick pics, thank you)! This will get people wondering what you might be up to later and if they can get some.

Old flames!

What better time to reignite an old flame than when you're feeling horny? Think about people who you've had a previous encounter with who you never quite reconnected with. Maybe you have someone in mind that you haven't yet to break long-standing sexual tension with. Maybe you have a previous hook up that you'd like to revisit?

All of these people are great options. They're already comfortable with you - assuming you'd at the very least touched tongues before - and might be looking to take another ride.

Use your dog to your advantage!

Okay, this might only apply to some of you reading this… but it totally works. If you have a dog - hell, if your roommate or your good friend has a dog - use that pup's cuteness to your advantage. Take that dog to the dog park, take 'em on walks, take 'em to restaurants that are dog-friendly! Take them out and show them off.

No one can resist petting a cute dog, and no one can resist a cute dog with a cuter owner. I've known plenty of people who've used their dog to get attention at dog parks, around town, and other dog-friendly establishments and have gotten laid in the process. The power of puppy love is a curious thing, for sure.

Exes!

This tip is the only tip that comes with a warning label: Ex sex is tricky. There are exes where you can hook up or stay friends, and there be no chance of nuclear fallout. However, there are exes where if you were even to see them in the street it would cause a natural disaster.

I recommend looking to chiller exes to see if they'd be down to hook up. Look to exes where the wounds have healed, or you ended things on good terms! This is the best way to get your nut but keep your life drama free.